Elevate Your Frequency

We don't get to believe life is sacred only when it's convenient. 

We don't get to say, everything happens for a reason, but then when life throws us lemons complain. 

We don't get to say there are signs everywhere but only when they are pointing to our most desired outcome. This is just an excuse to not look at something within. 

We don't get to call people souls but not treat them that way. 

We don't get to pick and choose what experiences are lessons and when we feel like seeing it as such. 

We don't get to go back to sleep after we've awakened. We don't. 

And I know it felt easier before when you could blame others, make it their fault, point out their flaws and turn a blind eye to the fundamental spiritual laws of the universe. 

The universe operates on laws; it is responding to your vibration. So if you are one of those people who only believes in the sacred when it serves your needs, then you've probably already noticed mixed signals from the universe. 

That's what happens when we give mixed signals. 

We can want love in our lives but treat people like shit. 

We can want to attract abundance but feel gripping panic in our chests every time we pay a bill. 

We can want opportunity but fail to love and work on ourselves. 

We can say we trust the universe but try to control every last area of our life. 

Whatever vibration we offer up to the universe is what she sends right back our way, so when things are not going as desired don't get mad and say you knew it, find a way to see what is working. Find a way to shift your vibration, to be ok with whatever is arising, and love it. 

When we love, we elevate and from here we can get excited about the life we are co-creating, we can correct our course and manifest our hearts desires in alignment with our truth. 

All of life is sacred, every moment is perfect for something - even the challenging ones. It is not you against the world, but rather you creating with it and although we do not control our environment, we sure do shape it by responding from either fear or love, resistance or acceptance. 

Together let's elevate to the frequency of our holy heart center, let's dance with desire, and run with the wild dynamic state of creation called life. 

Conscious Uncoupling

I wonder who I will be when it’s no longer you and me 

but rather me and me 

and you and you 

one day, maybe soon, it will be you and her 

me and him 

I can’t help but wonder 

how much we shaped each other’s being 

carved our names into each other’s hearts

and we belonged there for a time 

it was wild and romantic and free 

the way you fell into my arms on that green velvet couch 

there wasn’t an inch of me that you did not claim as your own 

and you belonged to me, as much as anyone can belong to someone 

there were moments when I didn’t want to belong in your heart 

moments where silence tore us apart on the floor of that hotel room on my 31st birthday, words that etched their way into the fabric of my lungs 

we cast out dark shadows with great light that night 

fell asleep in a field as the crows cried overhead 

and we held each other tightly, 

not knowing if it was the last time our skin would heat up against the fire in our chests 

you were my everything

a force that swallowed me whole 

a bottomless depth to which I gleefully swam 

an emerald green ocean on a hot summers day 

I wonder when the frost of winter landed on the fruit of our love; 

it came without warning

it came without reason or remedy 

without declaration or denial 

the emptiness began to swallow us whole 

no contractual agreement to bind our unfolding 

the greatest love story began to rewrite itself 

from structure to formless 

from singular to limitless 

once again we find ourselves unbridled to expectation and free to truly love the places we’ve called home in each other’s evolution 

clawing and gripping at nothing 

releasing ideas of dogma and duty

sculpting a new ending, a final exploration, that the Angels will herald in heaven 

and bless from above 

because only the brave can love deeply enough 

to let each other go 

with this much beauty and innocence and grace 

Forgiveness

People who are hurt, hurt other people, and the seed of anger only grows when we allow others to impact us negatively.  Anger then passes from person to person, a marry-go-round of resentment spinning out of control until everyone is sick.  This is where society is stuck – in a playground during recess where the connection between action and consequence are still new and unfamiliar.  It needs to stop.  Forgiveness is the cure.  If we don’t learn to forgive, we allow the person who has wronged us to hold us prisoners in the past and therefore, lose sight of the beauty found in the present moment. 

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